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Top 3 Most Common Mistakes Made During a Breakup
Saturday, 05 September 2009 10:59 | 
Written by Erik J. Michaels |
When you are trying to get your relationship back on track after you and your boyfriend broke up, it is important to avoid any of the many harmful behaviors that could be toxic to your efforts. There are several things that really cause the most problems, but I'm just going to list the top 3 for you. If at all possible, talk yourself out of doing any of these things!
When you are trying to get your relationship back on track after you and your boyfriend broke up, it is important to avoid any of the many harmful behaviors that could be toxic to your efforts. There are several things that really cause the most problems, but I'm just going to list the top 3 for you. If at all possible, talk yourself out of doing any of these things!
1) Drunken Dialing - It can be very lonely after a breakup, and it can often lead to late nights up just contemplating your situation over a few drinks. There is nothing wrong with that, but often the alcohol can lower your inhibitions and blur the lines so that your loneliness convinces you that its actually a good idea to call up your ex at 2:00 AM and spill all your feelings into whatever picks up: your ex or the voicemail.
Unfortunately, this is a common situation that more and more brokenhearted people are finding themselves in, and it does a lot of damage to any attempts to get your ex back. If your ex even picks up, you are just going to end up embarassing yourself. Even if you get the voicemail, you're still going to seriously regret it...the hangover wont be the only thing you have to deal with in the morning.
2) Text-Message Terrorism - Kind of like Drunken Dialing without the alcohol...this is when you attack your ex with wave after wave of phone calls or text messages, all trying to win him back or convince him of how much you care about him. His phone is cluttered with message after message, and never stops ringing.
It is really easy to fall into this. Even if it doesnt seem like something you would do, being in such a turmoil can make you very desperate...desperate enough to practically harass your ex with constant calls. This will only alienate you and your ex, and drive him to be so tired of you that he avoids you entirely...which makes getting him back significantly harder.
3) The Endless Slump - Allowing yourself to become so depressed that you can barely force yourself to get out of bed in the morning is NOT the ticket to winning your ex back. It can be hard to cope with breakup pain, but letting it get to an extreme such as this will not just hurt you, it will destroy you.
This is a very damaging problem that can do more than keep you from getting your ex back, it can keep you from ever getting anything. After a few missed days at class or work, you start to fall behind and you can even end up flunking or getting fired. Your friends will start to avoid talking to you because all you have to talk about is your pain, because there isnt anything else in your life at all. Until you realize that this just cannnot be the way you live your life, this behavior will continue to plague you until it drains you out and dries you up.
These three things are all far too common, and they can seriously damage your life and your chances of finding happiness again with your ex. If you find yourself doing them, stop at once. Recovery is definitely possible, you just need a plan of action and the will to carry it out!
When you are trying to get your relationship back on track after you and your boyfriend broke up, it is important to avoid any of the many harmful behaviors that could be toxic to your efforts. There are several things that really cause the most problems, but I'm just going to list the top 3 for you. If at all possible, talk yourself out of doing any of these things!
1) Drunken Dialing - It can be very lonely after a breakup, and it can often lead to late nights up just contemplating your situation over a few drinks. There is nothing wrong with that, but often the alcohol can lower your inhibitions and blur the lines so that your loneliness convinces you that its actually a good idea to call up your ex at 2:00 AM and spill all your feelings into whatever picks up: your ex or the voicemail.
Unfortunately, this is a common situation that more and more brokenhearted people are finding themselves in, and it does a lot of damage to any attempts to get your ex back. If your ex even picks up, you are just going to end up embarassing yourself. Even if you get the voicemail, you're still going to seriously regret it...the hangover wont be the only thing you have to deal with in the morning.
2) Text-Message Terrorism - Kind of like Drunken Dialing without the alcohol...this is when you attack your ex with wave after wave of phone calls or text messages, all trying to win him back or convince him of how much you care about him. His phone is cluttered with message after message, and never stops ringing.
It is really easy to fall into this. Even if it doesnt seem like something you would do, being in such a turmoil can make you very desperate...desperate enough to practically harass your ex with constant calls. This will only alienate you and your ex, and drive him to be so tired of you that he avoids you entirely...which makes getting him back significantly harder.
3) The Endless Slump - Allowing yourself to become so depressed that you can barely force yourself to get out of bed in the morning is NOT the ticket to winning your ex back. It can be hard to cope with breakup pain, but letting it get to an extreme such as this will not just hurt you, it will destroy you.
This is a very damaging problem that can do more than keep you from getting your ex back, it can keep you from ever getting anything. After a few missed days at class or work, you start to fall behind and you can even end up flunking or getting fired. Your friends will start to avoid talking to you because all you have to talk about is your pain, because there isnt anything else in your life at all. Until you realize that this just cannnot be the way you live your life, this behavior will continue to plague you until it drains you out and dries you up.
These three things are all far too common, and they can seriously damage your life and your chances of finding happiness again with your ex. If you find yourself doing them, stop at once. Recovery is definitely possible, you just need a plan of action and the will to carry it out!
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